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10i01
08-19-2006, 01:34 AM
man i dont know what to do, its a really humiliating situation that im in right now....i couldnt open up with just anybody, it tears me apart. i have erection issues and im 24. i dont know but this has been going on to close a year............it sucks and it really degrading. i dont know whats happening with me, do i have std? i dont feel like i have symptoms. am i gay? but i dont feel any sexual interest with other guys. do i have cancer or whatever serious disease? its really heart breaking, im depressed..........i dont know what going on, can anybody please help me out on this? what should i do? what do you guys think is going on with me?

:o :( :confused:

Kid Achilles
08-20-2006, 10:51 PM
Have you been experimenting with drugs or are you a big drinker? The problem could be something you are putting in yourself and should go away if you cut back on any of these habits. Also, are you getting enough sleep, drinking enough water?

BDeskins
08-21-2006, 08:51 AM
Well firstly, I think you should consult a doctor instead of boxing fans...you're fortunate that most of the posters here on this forum are adults, most other forums would do nothing but make fun of it and tear you a new one. If you are serious then you should see a doctor. As the other poster stated, it could be any number of things, which I doubt any boxing fans will be able to answer for you!

Juan C Ayllon
08-21-2006, 12:31 PM
Hi 10i01,

Definitely take Barry's advice and see a doctor.

The other thing is that, perhaps your body is telling you something that your mind doesn't want to acknowledge right now. I don't know the nature of your relationship or relationships, but maybe deep down inside, you don't feel emotionally "safe" or ready to take on a physical relationship at this level with this person or persons.

It's just a thought.

Peace,



Juan

GorDoom
08-21-2006, 05:27 PM
10/01:

It takes a real man to post what you did. Obviously it's a sensitive subject but I agree with Kid A, Barry & Juan:

Go see a doctor. You're problem probably has a very simple solution. & Barry is correct, we're all adults here & anybody with any human compassion would & should not give you any crap over this.

& if someone does, I can guarantee you I will PERSONALLY tear him a new one.

& lastly, you're not gay, you just have a problem that I'm sure can be easliy rectified medically.


GorDoom

Juan C Ayllon
08-22-2006, 11:24 AM
Thanks, Bucket! I appreciate that.

Hey 10i01, have a better day.

Regards,



Juan

Goofy Pimple
08-22-2006, 01:48 PM
I'm not sure from your post whether your 'issues' are when you are alone or with a woman.

Anyway, I guess we have all had our embarrasing moments when the old chap won't respond.

Years back when I was around 20, I pulled this older woman aged around 40. When I got her in the sack I realised she was ugly as phuck and it felt like she had whiskers on her chin. Even keeping my eyes closed there was nothing I could do to get a response from the old chap and I had to throw in the towel.

Around 12 months later I got this gorgeous girl back to my place. I had a belly full of ale and it was around 1 in the morning when I started with my charm. It must have been 5 'o' clock before she said yes ...... but by now I could barely keep my eyes open. Even with her lying there totally naked, I could not arouse my pecker.
For years after I would walk the other side of the street if I seen her in town ..... total humiliation. :(

But since those two setbacks, it's been plain sailing.


BTW, whats' this 'std' you mention, that's not a term I recognise. :confused:

hawk5ins
08-22-2006, 01:59 PM
Pls help me......I have a...
(by) Goofy Pimple

I know. I'm silly.

Hawk

wildhawke11
08-22-2006, 06:51 PM
man i dont know what to do, its a really humiliating situation that im in right now....i couldnt open up with just anybody, it tears me apart. i have erection issues and im 24. i dont know but this has been going on to close a year............it sucks and it really degrading. i dont know whats happening with me, do i have std? i dont feel like i have symptoms. am i gay? but i dont feel any sexual interest with other guys. do i have cancer or whatever serious disease? its really heart breaking, im depressed..........i dont know what going on, can anybody please help me out on this? what should i do? what do you guys think is going on with me?

:o :( :confused:

You might be very surprised to find out that many men suffer or have suffered with that same problem at some stage of there life. I will take a sure bet that even now one or two of our posters here have or have had, that same problem. So dont let it worry you to much. Also of course the depression will not help you to recover. The obvious advice is to go see the Doctor. He will get to the root of the problem for you or put you on to someone who can help you. But and this is important dont hold back tell him or her all.
Good Luck
Danny

10i01
08-29-2006, 07:37 AM
thanks guys......

u know the reason why i came out in the open about my situation was becuase of the fact that i noticed we have a good number of 'old-timers' in here-guys who've been there done that type, hope u dont mind i guess i was looking for some kind of fatherly figure with whom i wouldnt feel threatened or embarrassed about what was going on.

i greatly appreciate all of your input into this matter.........it was very helpful.

im so happy that i think i have dug out what was bothering me. it seemed like it was more of the mental thing.....it seems like a skin disease called eczema that i still have right now was the reason why i was and still is restless when im with people, esp with girls. i thought i was trying to dismiss this annoying skin flaking for the longest time and it did some issues with my mental state? however once i was able to accept the fact that i have them i felt at ease with myself..............and so

i did some self test, watch some porns and i was relieved that i was able to make my you know to respond.....although i havent tried it yet on with a girl yet. still im positive its a good step forward

thanks guys i really appreciated everything. i just couldnt open up with anybody without getting completely shamed, but here....

i hope i can get back to you too, if you have some things in mind that you would like to share...............

*std=sexually transmitted disease/vd=venereal disease

TKO Tom
09-03-2006, 06:30 PM
I've gotta' go take a shower.